Saturday, December 17, 2016

'Tis the Season!

Fact Check: TRUE:

I have always had a tremendously deep love for Christmas. I begin counting down to Christmas sometime in August, and I begin listening to Christmas music sometime in October (much to the chagrin of friends and coworkers). People have always asked me to explain where my love for Christmas comes from. I cannot really explain it other than to say that my love of Christmas as a child has stayed with me as an adult. It has never left, and in many ways, has only grown stronger

Of course the commercialization of Christmas is a little out of hand, and has been for quite some time. However, that does not offset the joy and giving spirit of the season. I enjoy the season of giving, of camaraderie, and the random acts of kindness. I enjoy the endless supply of ridiculously cheesy-yet-awesome Hallmark Christmas movies. I enjoy hearing Christmas music playing in all of the shops and stores. I enjoy driving around and looking at the Christmas lights on display during a cold winter's night.  

I would be remiss if I did not mention that I also love the copious amount of sweets that I consume during this time of year (unrelated, I need a bigger belt). 

My blogging family means the world to me, so I want to wish each and every one of you a very Merry Christmas from the bottom of my heart.

What is your favorite thing about the Christmas season?

Saturday, October 29, 2016

True Friendship

"Rare as is true love, true friendship is rarer" - Jean de La fontaine

One of the most valuable things in life, and sometimes one of the most under-appreciated, is true friendship. 

The kind of friendship that is genuine, selfless, and real. 

Throughout our lives we meet hundreds if not thousands of people who become acquaintances. Casual friendships. But, over the course of our lives, I think we can count the number of true genuine friendships on one hand.

And when you find a true friendship like that, I think you hold onto it forever. I think you cherish it. Nurture it. Appreciate it.  For it is every bit as valuable as anything you'll ever find.

Everybody is familiar with the concept of soul mates. But I also think we have "soul friends". Those people who were meant to come into our our lives. The type of friendships that can only be described as feeling like "home".

There something refreshing about being able to be your true genuine self with somebody. Free from judgment. Free from the veneer and the façade that casual acquaintances see.

Let's face it, sometimes in life we need to be humble enough to allow ourselves to lean on someone. And it is those true friendships that sustain us through those rough and rocky times that life can often present us with. 

So here's to true friendship. May we all appreciate it when we find it, and hold onto it - for true friendship is everlasting

What are your thoughts on the importance of friendship in our lives? 

Friday, August 19, 2016

Past or Future?

I have a question today for my dear blogging friends:

If you could travel to the future and spend one day 500 years in the future

Or travel back in time and spend one day 500 years in the past

And your safety was guaranteed...

Which would you choose? And why?

Wednesday, July 27, 2016

I admit it...I have a problem

Anyone who has known me for even a short amount of time knows of my proclivity for sweets. 

To put it bluntly, I have a problem. 

Acknowledgement is always the first step, right?

Whether it is milk chocolate Lindt bars, dark chocolate truffles, espresso chocolate nougats, chocolate covered almonds, various types of ice cream, cakes, cookies, pies, etc. 

I want them all. 

I have eaten 3 pints of Häagen-Dazs this week alone (and it is only Wednesday). If you have never eaten an entire pint of ice cream, straight out of the container, in one setting, then we probably cannot be friends.

I have been known to have sweets for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. All in the same day. 

I would venture to guess that my blood, at this point, is 20-30% syrup. 

Something about sweets raises my endorphins. Just the thought of chocolate can sometimes make my heart skip a beat. Healthy? No. But do I care? No.

In fact, I am eating a Lindor truffle as I write this. 

Do you have a sweet tooth? 

Monday, July 11, 2016

Should we really lose faith?

I saw a public poll a couple of weeks ago stating that almost 90% of adults think that the world is going in the wrong direction. 


While these feelings are understandable, are they really justified? 

I would venture to guess that the poll would have had the same results whether taken in 2016, 1996, 1965, 1917, 1850, or any other random year.

I think we are always inclined to believe that the world is going to hell in a hand-basket. 

Terrorism, famine, mass shootings, economic collapses, genocides, environmental degradation, etc. I can understand people's lack of faith in the world. 

But I do not agree with it

All of the aforementioned problems have been occurring for decades, if not longer. 

We have overcome a lot, as a species. We have survived two world wars, multiple genocides, the cold war, maniacal dictators, American Idol, etc. ​

More democracies exist today than at any other time in history. 

People are living longer than ever. 

The hole in the ozone layer is closing more and more every year. 

Volunteerism around the world is at an all-time high.

There is good happening in the world. But we lose sight of that because the only things making the news are the bad things. It is easy to fall into the trap of being blinded by the bad. 

Perhaps I am naive. It would not be the first time. 

What do you think? Is the world really worse off than it has ever been? Is there more bad than good?

Saturday, June 25, 2016


Seeing as though this is the first week of summer, I thought a summer post would be apropos. 

It has been crazy hot this week in Germany, and summer is in full-swing. The days are filled with 17 hours of daylight, and the nights are filled with the sounds of crickets. People are having BBQs and drinking ice cold drinks. The lake shores are full of people, and the trees are full of their rich green leaves. 

The world is one big party in the summertime, it seems! 

Though summer is my least favorite of the seasons (weird, I know), is it not without things that I enjoy:

The romanticism of baseball being played on a warm summer night

The sounds of crickets and katydids in the nighttime air while driving through the country

Summer cookouts 

The wonderful electricity in the air right before a glorious thunderstorm 

Ice cream on hot days (or if I am being truthful, on any day really)

The admiration one feels when seeing the hard-working farmers tending to their fields 

A glass of ice cold lemonade on a scorching hot day

Summer blockbuster movies

The sound of frogs coming from the ponds surrounding the countryside

Going to the beach and playing in the ocean

Summer most definitely has its perks, even though I will always be an autumn and winter person (as of today, only 6 more months until Christmas!)

What is your favorite thing about summer? 

Monday, June 6, 2016

My Top 10 Current Television Shows

In the past 5-7 years, the quality of television has increased drastically. So drastically in fact, that one could argue it has surpassed movies as far as entertainment is concerned. The sheer level of acting and writing talent in the television world is a sight to behold. 

Another important change, talent aside, is the recently new development of television shows being written in a serialized format (one story told over an entire season or seasons), as opposed to an episodic "story of the week" format. 

When you combine these two changes, it is no wonder that people are now preferring television to movies. After all, you can only get so attached to a character or story in a two-hour movie. In a serialized television show, however, you follow the story over the course of years (literally). It is like a series of novels unfolding in front of your eyes. 

I developed my own personal top 10 list of current television shows. If you have not seen these, I highly recommend checking them out :)

#10 The Blacklist

James Spader's role as Raymond Reddington is one of the greatest performances on television today. Reddington, an international fugitive and the most-wanted man in the world, willfully turns himself in to the FBI in the very first episode. While explaining the motives behind Reddington's mysterious motives and background, the show takes the viewer on an amazing journey, spanning several countries and continents. 

                             #9 Daredevil

I just recently binge-watched two seasons of this show on Netflix in about two days whilst eating large quantities of ice cream. What a wild ride it was. Marvel stories, while entertaining, are not generally known for deep acting performances. Daredevil, however, is a wonderful exception. Additionally, Vincent D'Onofrio (who has always been among my favorite actors), plays one of the most well-written, and non-cliched, villains in TV history. 

#8 House of Cards

As a person who has always had a deep love for politics, I find House Of Cards to be a fascinating show. The show centers on Frank Underwood (played by Kevin Spacey), a ruthless (and in many ways, sociopathic) Member of the United States House of Representatives, and his unhealthy quest for power. There is also an amazing side-story involving his complicated relationship with his wife.

#7 Walking Dead

I will admit that I have never been a big fan of the zombie genre, so I watched the first episode of this show a few years ago with some skepticism. I was wrong. Wow. This show is about so much more than "zombies". In fact, zombies probably only compromise 5-10 minutes of each episode. It is a story about the search for self, and the struggle to hold on to who we are, in a post-apocalyptic world. 

#6 True Detective

If I had to proclaim one acting performance as the best I have ever seen on television, it would be Matthew McConaughey's performance as internally-turmoiled FBI agent Rustin Cole. The story involves the search for a serial killer in 1995, and is told in haunting flashbacks by Agent Cole and his partner (played by Woody Harrelson). 

#5 Homeland

Homeland is a superbly executed and complex story involving a CIA agent played deftly by Claire Danes. Danes suspects that a recently freed Marine prisoner of war is actually a terrorist who has been indoctrinated during captivity. The tension reaches a fever pitch as the truth is slowly revealed. 

#4 Hannibal

Hannibal is a "prequel" of sorts, as it centers on Silence of the Lamb's legendary villain Hannibal Lecter during his days as a psychotherapist. The acting is among the best I have ever seen in the history of television. And the writing is pure poetry. Witnessing Dr. Lecter in sessions with patients, knowing all the while that he has a deep-seeded psychopathy, is simply captivating. An interesting development occurs when one of Dr. Lecter's patients begins to suspect that there is more to him than meets the eye. That patient? An FBI agent and criminal profiler. The battle of wits becomes more tense with each and every episode. 

#3 The Americans

As espionage shows go, this one tops Homeland by a slim margin. The Americans is a story about a seemingly typical American couple, who are in fact Russian spies that have integrated themselves into American society. Their goal: to conduct deep undercover operations and transmit sensitive and highly-classified information back to Moscow. The story takes place in 1981, during the Cold Ward. Complicating matters, the couple's next door neighbor is an FBI agent who is working on a classified investigation involving two unknown Russian spies...unaware that he is living right next door to them. 

#2 Game of Thrones

It is quite simply the most complex, vast, and elaborate story ever produced in the history of television. It revolves around seven royal families/kingdoms as they vie for the claim to the Iron Throne of the mythical land of Westoros. Characters that you love will die, while characters that you loathe will not. This is the most non-clichéd show I've ever seen, and I absolutely love that. Nothing is black-and-white - all the character's morality (or lack thereof) is relative. It's not about good guys versus bad guys, it's about the struggle for survival.

#1 Fargo

It would have taken a show of epic proportions to supplant Game of Thrones as the #1 show on my list. And the murder mystery Fargo is just that. Fargo is an anthology series (each season with a separate story line and characters), a rarity on television. Both seasons take place, as the title alludes, in the city of Fargo, North Dakota. The acting and writing is, quite simply, the best that I have ever seen. And it is not even close. From Billy Bob Thorton's role as villain, To Colin Hank's (Son of Tom Hanks) role as conflicted police officer, the acting is simply an art form. 

What is your current favorite TV show?

Saturday, May 21, 2016

The abnormality of normality


What does that word even mean? 

What is a normal person? A normal day? A normal job? A normal problem? Etc?

That term has always baffled me, to be quite honest. 

If there is such an identifiable concept as normality, I certainly do not fit the criteria (nor would I want to). 

We all have our personal quirks that qualify us as abnormal. 

I for one love winter far more than summer. 

I begin counting down to Christmas beginning in late spring. 

I have been known to go an entire day eating nothing but sweets. 

I used to have heart to heart talks with my cat

I tend to make even the most normal conversation incredibly awkward. 

I will not read a book if I do not like the geographical setting in which it takes place

I prefer rain to sun

I once locked my keys in my car twice on the same day 

​Just a few examples of my little oddities. We all have them...I hope

I have also often said that if a person is not at least a little weird, then we cannot be friends. Normal, if there is such a thing, is boring as hell. 

Is there such a thing as "normal"?

Monday, May 2, 2016

The Beauty of Giving

This is one of the most powerful quotes that I have ever seen. The truth of this quote really speaks volumes. 


Performing acts of kindness

Doing something for others

When you make the decision to reach out and be kind to those who could never possibly repay you, you experience the absolute true beauty of giving, and what it can bring. Doing something kind for another person can change their day, or in some cases, their life. 

When you do something kind for someone, you could be making more of an impact than you realize. You could be doing something for someone who, unbeknownst to you, had been having a terrible day up until that point, or had been feeling really down about life as of late. And due to your act of kindness, you suddenly give them hope without even realizing it. 

That is the beauty of it. You can literally change the way a person looks at the world.

Yes, receiving can be wonderful. We are not selfish when we enjoy receiving. But absolutely nothing compares to the joy of giving. It is the most rewarding feeling in the world. 

Ironically, by giving, you are receiving. You just do not realize it yet...

What sort of feeling do you get when you give?

Friday, April 15, 2016

Prisoners of the Past

Moving on from the past, whether it is last week or 25 years ago, can be an incredibly difficult thing. 

Nothing imprisons us like the past. The hurt we have endured. The things we have done that we cannot forgive ourselves for. The things done to us that we cannot forgive others for. 

The past is painful. There is no sugar-coating that. It affects us more than we realize. Our life philosophy, our friendships, our romantic relationships, and our world view. 

But just because we carry those scars, some of which will never heal, does that mean we have to allow it to imprison us? Do we have to let our past dictate our present, and even worse, our future?

I am not saying that we should, or could, just instantly look at the past through rose-colored glasses. Quite frankly, anyone who suggests that is naive. Denial is never a good option. 

But perhaps, acceptance is. 

We are often taught to accept the things that we cannot change. To resist the urge to control things that are out of our control. Is there anything more out of our control than the past? Is there anything more unchangeable than the past? 

Perhaps, by viewing it through that lens, we can take a step forward in accepting the past. It happened. There is absolutely nothing we can do about it. Not one single thing. 

But you know what we can do something about? Tomorrow. 

Do you have a difficult time with the past? Does it haunt you?

Tuesday, March 22, 2016

I would rather have nothing, than have everything.

I would rather have nothing, than have everything.

I have always been a very simple person. Maybe sometimes too much so - but I would rather be too simple than too complicated. I am often a person of little words. In fact, on a day where I am not in the work place, I could speak 20 words the entire day and be perfectly content. 

This often leads some people to view me as aloof or to ask me if something is wrong, when in fact nothing is wrong at all. 

Simplicity bleeds over to other aspects of life as well. I have never needed much. I do not need anything fancy. I do not need (nor want) the most up-to-date things. I do not need the newest phone. I do not need the newest fashions (I do not think I have bought a new shirt in 3 or 4 years). 

In fact, I am not even comfortable having a lot. Perhaps that is because I never have. But I am damn thankful for that. 

I have always found there to be an inverse relationship between happiness and the amount of things that one has. 

Have you ever noticed that the happiest people seem to be the people who do not have much?

Have you ever noticed that the most giving people are those that have the least to give?

I feel more at home with those that have the least. 

I always will.

What are your thoughts on simplicity?